Why won’t they let young people sit down?
The internet can take you to some strange places very quickly.
Take Saturday night for example. One minute I’m lying on the couch listening to my 12 week old son crying relentlessly upstairs and my wife trying her best to soothe him off to sleep. Eventually she jangled car keys in front of his face for 15 minutes. It worked quite well.
The next minute, I’m racking my brains trying to remember the name of the act that represented the UK at Eurovision in 1995 and thanks to my iPhone, I’m soon on the internet finding out the answer.
From there (don’t ask me how) I ended up on a website that contained minutes from a community council meeting.
Amidst the usual chat about potholes and squirrels was something that took me aback. There’d been a discussion about a bus shelter and whether or not a bench for people to sit on should be installed in it.
The minutes stated “it was felt the bench could become a magnet for youths”.
What on earth is wrong with young people using a bench at a bus stop?!
Isn’t that the intended purpose of the bench? For people to sit on?!
I assume they meant “a magnet for people of any age that might cause trouble”. But that’s not what they said and it’s not the message they’re sending out.
The message is everything and with discussions like that going on (and being included in the minutes – goodness knows what they’re saying behind closed doors that we never hear about) no wonder young people feel victimised by the rest of society.
Of course, the way people speak in community councils and in the privacy of their own homes is influenced, to a degree by media coverage. Just being aware of this means you’re now more likely to spot examples of young people being given a bad press when they don’t deserve it. So look out for this and let me know when you spot an example.
I’d make it mandatory for every community council to include a young person on the committee who attends all their meetings. They’ve as much right as anyone else to a say in how their community operates and shouldn’t be getting “talked about” in this way without being able to stand up for themselves.
Perhaps local schools could suggest a group of prefects who could attend throughout the year. I know some community councils regularly have a youth worker along who speaks on behalf of the young people in the area, but I don’t see why the young people themselves can’t be involved.
I think there’s a lot everyone could gain and I’d be keen to hear any examples of parts of the country where this happens and how it works.